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Costumes and Imagination As Adult sex toys - Hot or otherwise?

There's a lot of hype going on about using costumes, and everyday things for the home like 'imagination' as sex toys! But as hot as many people get for the concept of becoming the naughty schoolgirl or a buffed, bronzed fireman, there are just as many who are completely switched off by them! Today we explore both sides from the role-playing in sex issue, and discover tips to get a shy partner randy for imaginative playtime!

So why do some people feel so uncomfortable about it?

Role playing isn't immediately for everybody... and truthfully, costumes and accessories are not adult sex toys which will ever truly switch on some people. There are a variety of reasons that people don't immediately take to the thought of role-playing with a partner, including:

   They feel silly 'acting' like somebody other than themselves
   They think they will be laughed at
   They can't stand the inherent power imbalances that some characters create (cops, teachers, etc)

So, in case your partner uses among the above arguments to not get involved in role playing, in the event you just give up your fantasies? Certainly not!

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How do i help my partner get hot and heavy for role playing?

This may be easier than you think! Here are some ideas...

Begin with lingerie:

One of the reasons that girls love to shop a lot is the fact that each new outfit provides them a sense of a brand new identity... of becoming different to their boring old selves. These girls come with an inbuilt affinity for the joys that roleplaying brings... and you can capitalise on that by taking them lingerie shopping.

Much adult lingerie was created like a halfway point between costumes and ordinary old lacy underwear. Make one or two comments while she's wearing her new lingerie about how exactly much she looks like (A hot French maid/A sexy nurse/A bondage diva), 're and tell her to (clean up once you, because you're a dirty boy/Help you with a problem in your pants/Teach a lesson).

Find out if she only objects with a characters:

Some girls might not like the thought of teacher-student role play simply because they have real-life memories of creepy teachers. Some believe that schoolgirl fantasies have pedophilic overtones. Some don't like the submissive overtones built into maid's costumes. Discover exactly what she objects to in role playing, and find out if it could be worked around.

Make laughter part of the play:

So that your lover starts laughing uncontrollably? Don't quit, arrange it into the act! Don't let the lapse of laughter ruin the whole adventure.

Use ordinary scenarios to start with:

Many couples prefer to pretend that they have no idea one another, and get together in a pub before venturing out to the car! Either one of you could be a hot stripper giving a teasing dance, or even a royal prince rescuing the other party from something.

Make certain s/he comes:

Should you finally get the partner to try role-playing, make sure they have time of their life! Involve adult sex toys along with other props as necessary to ensure there is a screamingly good time... and you are well on your way to a future filled with imaginative play!